Getting ready for bed is not a good time to tell your boyfriend that he did a suck-ish job at work today, trust me. We also discussed a lot of topics and articles such as this one by thoughtcatalog. Please do not turn into one of those women who pressures him about commitment, because he will leave if you do. Personally, I think every person, men and women, need to have their own time table of relationship mile stones, and communicate them to their significat other. My husband and I took way longer on most of these but we started dating in college, so we were definitely on the younger side. AskMen Home.
And then there are people who say it too quick, just because they feel lust and want to believe it, and of course there are those who say it and consciously know it is a lie.
A Timetable for Relationship Milestones
A lot depends on the age of the people involved and how established their lives are in regard to their careers, financial situation, goals achieved etc. I agree- the wedding has become so much more than the marriage. I am willing to wait, but I don't want to wait so long that I miss the opportunity to be a mother. Dear Wendy September 14, In the news 39 comments. That will make your life miserable and the child suffers too.